Client Case Study - From feeling resentful towards in-laws to maintaining boundaries without guilt


My student had done a ton of inner work but kept going back to old habits of letting family walk all over her

She often felt frustrated that she couldn't say no to in-laws

During 8 weeks in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure, we found that although she had done the journaling & affirming & some of her people pleasing tendencies had gone ๐ข.๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฒ ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ

She still had ๐ฎ๐ง๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ž๐ ๐ž๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ around her childhood in 6 areas

Love
Success
Authenticity
Feminine/Sexual Energy
Faith
Health

That were keeping her ๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ฆ ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ & blocking her from being in rest & receive mode

She had successfully cleared unresolved feelings around money (which is what we worked on in week 1)

However her identity in 6 other areas of her life was still playing the movie of a ๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐๐ข๐๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ, ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž๐, ๐œ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐›๐ž ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ, ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ, ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ž๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก & ๐›๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ ๐†๐จ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ž๐ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ

These beliefs were the root cause of feeling guilty for maintaining boundaries with family

In week 2 we worked on her belief that she's unlovable. She found memories of her Dad ignoring her & her having to walk on eggshells around him

This created the ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐›๐ž๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ซ

In Week 3 she discovered she was afraid to fulfill her dreams in case she lost loved ones. She followed what people wanted for her. She didn't know what she wanted for herself

Hence why she kept people pleasing

In week 4 she realized she actually ๐๐ข๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ. Since she was young she was careful not to do wrong incase she was punished

That's why she just let people tell her what to do because she ๐๐ข๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐›๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ & ๐๐ข๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐›๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ฌ๐ก๐ž๐

And this affected her feminine energy.

She was burnt out trying to be a good wife, mum, daughter, auntie, friend etc

She was juggling all the roles herself often feeling ๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ that no one ๐ก๐ž๐ฅ๐ฉ๐ž๐ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ

And that's why she struggled with praying. Although she prayed on time, she would rush through them & felt disconnected from God

She felt like God wanted to punish her because that's how her parents raised her

Her dream was to wake up for tahajjud (night prayer)

๐”๐ง๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ž๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š, ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐š๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž for ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ž instead of God

Which deeply affected her mental & physical health. She had severe anxiety & issues with her liver

After 8 weeks of Abundance Rewiringโ„ข๏ธ & coaching in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure

She was able to delete those painful memories from childhood that kept her people pleasing

That helped her ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ around boundaries because she no longer had memories playing of her being punished for expressing independence

Which made it easier for her to reconnect to her ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž, ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ž ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ.

She visualized herself as confident, bold, courageous & powerful

When she downloaded her ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒโ€™๐ฌ beliefs & values her life changed

In 8 weeks she lost weight, her liver is healing, she got her hair done & felt like a brand new woman

She posted for the first time on her business page about her healing journey

๐’๐ก๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ช๐ฎ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐š๐ง๐ฑ๐ข๐ž๐ญ๐ฒ & even though she gets triggered she ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐ž๐ฑ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ how to ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ

By using the specific, personalized tools she learned every week in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure

And she felt like her soul went back on a journey home to God. She fulfilled her dream of praying tahajjud

๐ˆ๐ง ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿ– ๐ฐ๐ž๐ž๐ค๐ฌ, she went from being the woman who was everything for everyone

To stepping back, taking back her power & reclaiming her feminine essence

Notice she didn't have to do a ton of journaling or affirming

Every week she relaxed while I instructed her subconscious to rewire itself & uncover her authentic self

And was open to being coached in a group of amazing women, healing together

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ž ๐๐ข๐

๐ˆ'๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ. ๐ˆ๐ญ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฌ ๐š๐ง ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐š๐ญ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐›๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐ž๐ซ ๐›๐ž๐š๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ, ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ

If you want to change for good, heal permanently & never spiral back into old habits

Then you must change your identity in 8 areas of your life

๐’๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ

Your true self is hidden behind tons of disempowering beliefs that are playing like a scene from a movie in your subconscious

Your subconscious ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐ž๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ

Your ๐›๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐š๐œ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ

And then your ๐ž๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ž๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐›๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐œ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ

This is why journaling & affirming aren't as effective because they focus on your ๐ž๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ

If you want to be in control of your emotions, regulate your nervous system, be triggerless & set boundaries to break the Sabotage Cycleโ„ข๏ธ of ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค

Then you must change your ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐›๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐œ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ

Just like my student did. In 8 weeks she did the work, got coached & transformed her life

Imagine healing permanently so you can end people pleasing, perfectionism, procrastination & sabotage

Imagine saying no without justifying yourself like my student did

Imagine fulfilling your dreams because you feel confident enough

Imagine achieving everything on your vision board ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ž. You just rest & receive. ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ'๐ซ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ž๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ

When you join Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure you'll learn the somatic & psychological tools to rewire your subconscious & regulate your nervous system

So you can embrace your womanhood & become your dream woman ๐ญ๐จ๐๐š๐ฒ

Click HERE to join Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure

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