Client Case Study - From feeling resentful towards in-laws to maintaining boundaries without guilt
My student had done a ton of inner work but kept going back to old habits of letting family walk all over her
She often felt frustrated that she couldn't say no to in-laws
During 8 weeks in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure, we found that although she had done the journaling & affirming & some of her people pleasing tendencies had gone 𝐢.𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐭𝐲 𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐨𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟
She still had 𝐮𝐧𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 around her childhood in 6 areas
Love
Success
Authenticity
Feminine/Sexual Energy
Faith
Health
That were keeping her 𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐬𝐲𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐦 𝐝𝐲𝐬𝐫𝐞𝐠𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 & blocking her from being in rest & receive mode
She had successfully cleared unresolved feelings around money (which is what we worked on in week 1)
However her identity in 6 other areas of her life was still playing the movie of a 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧’𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬, 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝, 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟, 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 & 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐫
These beliefs were the root cause of feeling guilty for maintaining boundaries with family
In week 2 we worked on her belief that she's unlovable. She found memories of her Dad ignoring her & her having to walk on eggshells around him
This created the 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐫
In Week 3 she discovered she was afraid to fulfill her dreams in case she lost loved ones. She followed what people wanted for her. She didn't know what she wanted for herself
Hence why she kept people pleasing
In week 4 she realized she actually 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐬. Since she was young she was careful not to do wrong incase she was punished
That's why she just let people tell her what to do because she 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 & 𝐝𝐢𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐞𝐝
And this affected her feminine energy.
She was burnt out trying to be a good wife, mum, daughter, auntie, friend etc
She was juggling all the roles herself often feeling 𝐡𝐮𝐫𝐭 that no one 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐡𝐞𝐫
And that's why she struggled with praying. Although she prayed on time, she would rush through them & felt disconnected from God
She felt like God wanted to punish her because that's how her parents raised her
Her dream was to wake up for tahajjud (night prayer)
𝐔𝐧𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐮𝐦𝐚, 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐭𝐨 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 for 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 instead of God
Which deeply affected her mental & physical health. She had severe anxiety & issues with her liver
After 8 weeks of Abundance Rewiring™️ & coaching in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure
She was able to delete those painful memories from childhood that kept her people pleasing
That helped her 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐭 around boundaries because she no longer had memories playing of her being punished for expressing independence
Which made it easier for her to reconnect to her 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞, 𝐟𝐞𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟.
She visualized herself as confident, bold, courageous & powerful
When she downloaded her 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲’𝐬 beliefs & values her life changed
In 8 weeks she lost weight, her liver is healing, she got her hair done & felt like a brand new woman
She posted for the first time on her business page about her healing journey
𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐱𝐢𝐞𝐭𝐲 & even though she gets triggered she 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰𝐬 𝐞𝐱𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 how to 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐬
By using the specific, personalized tools she learned every week in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure
And she felt like her soul went back on a journey home to God. She fulfilled her dream of praying tahajjud
𝐈𝐧 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝟖 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐬, she went from being the woman who was everything for everyone
To stepping back, taking back her power & reclaiming her feminine essence
Notice she didn't have to do a ton of journaling or affirming
Every week she relaxed while I instructed her subconscious to rewire itself & uncover her authentic self
And was open to being coached in a group of amazing women, healing together
𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐝
𝐈'𝐦 𝐬𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐞𝐫. 𝐈𝐭 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐨𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐦 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥, 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟
If you want to change for good, heal permanently & never spiral back into old habits
Then you must change your identity in 8 areas of your life
𝐒𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟
Your true self is hidden behind tons of disempowering beliefs that are playing like a scene from a movie in your subconscious
Your subconscious 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐫𝐬
Your 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐢𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐭
And then your 𝐞𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭'𝐬 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐞𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬
This is why journaling & affirming aren't as effective because they focus on your 𝐞𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭
If you want to be in control of your emotions, regulate your nervous system, be triggerless & set boundaries to break the Sabotage Cycle™️ of 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤
Then you must change your 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬
Just like my student did. In 8 weeks she did the work, got coached & transformed her life
Imagine healing permanently so you can end people pleasing, perfectionism, procrastination & sabotage
Imagine saying no without justifying yourself like my student did
Imagine fulfilling your dreams because you feel confident enough
Imagine achieving everything on your vision board 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐥𝐞. You just rest & receive. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨
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