Client Case Study - From feeling resentful towards in-laws to maintaining boundaries without guilt
My student had done a ton of inner work but kept going back to old habits of letting family walk all over her
She often felt frustrated that she couldn't say no to in-laws
During 8 weeks in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure, we found that although she had done the journaling & affirming & some of her people pleasing tendencies had gone ๐ข.๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฒ ๐จ๐ง ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐
She still had ๐ฎ๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ around her childhood in 6 areas
Love
Success
Authenticity
Feminine/Sexual Energy
Faith
Health
That were keeping her ๐ง๐๐ซ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ฆ ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ซ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐๐ & blocking her from being in rest & receive mode
She had successfully cleared unresolved feelings around money (which is what we worked on in week 1)
However her identity in 6 other areas of her life was still playing the movie of a ๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐ฅ๐ ๐ ๐ข๐ซ๐ฅ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐๐ข๐๐งโ๐ญ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ, ๐๐๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐, ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐, ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ, ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ฒ ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก & ๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ
These beliefs were the root cause of feeling guilty for maintaining boundaries with family
In week 2 we worked on her belief that she's unlovable. She found memories of her Dad ignoring her & her having to walk on eggshells around him
This created the ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ซ
In Week 3 she discovered she was afraid to fulfill her dreams in case she lost loved ones. She followed what people wanted for her. She didn't know what she wanted for herself
Hence why she kept people pleasing
In week 4 she realized she actually ๐๐ข๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ก๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ. Since she was young she was careful not to do wrong incase she was punished
That's why she just let people tell her what to do because she ๐๐ข๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐๐ง๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐๐ซ & ๐๐ข๐๐ง'๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ฌ๐ก๐๐
And this affected her feminine energy.
She was burnt out trying to be a good wife, mum, daughter, auntie, friend etc
She was juggling all the roles herself often feeling ๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ that no one ๐ก๐๐ฅ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ
And that's why she struggled with praying. Although she prayed on time, she would rush through them & felt disconnected from God
She felt like God wanted to punish her because that's how her parents raised her
Her dream was to wake up for tahajjud (night prayer)
๐๐ง๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ฎ๐ฆ๐, ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ for ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐ instead of God
Which deeply affected her mental & physical health. She had severe anxiety & issues with her liver
After 8 weeks of Abundance Rewiringโข๏ธ & coaching in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure
She was able to delete those painful memories from childhood that kept her people pleasing
That helped her ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ญ around boundaries because she no longer had memories playing of her being punished for expressing independence
Which made it easier for her to reconnect to her ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐, ๐๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐.
She visualized herself as confident, bold, courageous & powerful
When she downloaded her ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ ๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒโ๐ฌ beliefs & values her life changed
In 8 weeks she lost weight, her liver is healing, she got her hair done & felt like a brand new woman
She posted for the first time on her business page about her healing journey
๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ช๐ฎ๐๐ซ๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ฑ๐ข๐๐ญ๐ฒ & even though she gets triggered she ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ๐ฌ ๐๐ฑ๐๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ how to ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐ ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ฌ
By using the specific, personalized tools she learned every week in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure
And she felt like her soul went back on a journey home to God. She fulfilled her dream of praying tahajjud
๐๐ง ๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ค๐ฌ, she went from being the woman who was everything for everyone
To stepping back, taking back her power & reclaiming her feminine essence
Notice she didn't have to do a ton of journaling or affirming
Every week she relaxed while I instructed her subconscious to rewire itself & uncover her authentic self
And was open to being coached in a group of amazing women, healing together
๐๐ก๐๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฌ๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐
๐'๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ. ๐๐ญ ๐ฐ๐๐ฌ ๐๐ง ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐๐ญ๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ฅ, ๐๐จ๐ง๐๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐
If you want to change for good, heal permanently & never spiral back into old habits
Then you must change your identity in 8 areas of your life
๐๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ฆ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ฅ๐
Your true self is hidden behind tons of disempowering beliefs that are playing like a scene from a movie in your subconscious
Your subconscious ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ
Your ๐๐จ๐๐ฒ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ญ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ
And then your ๐๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ
This is why journaling & affirming aren't as effective because they focus on your ๐๐ง๐ฏ๐ข๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ
If you want to be in control of your emotions, regulate your nervous system, be triggerless & set boundaries to break the Sabotage Cycleโข๏ธ of ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค
Then you must change your ๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ
Just like my student did. In 8 weeks she did the work, got coached & transformed her life
Imagine healing permanently so you can end people pleasing, perfectionism, procrastination & sabotage
Imagine saying no without justifying yourself like my student did
Imagine fulfilling your dreams because you feel confident enough
Imagine achieving everything on your vision board ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฅ๐. You just rest & receive. ๐๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ'๐ซ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ
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So you can embrace your womanhood & become your dream woman ๐ญ๐จ๐๐๐ฒ
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