Why New Year’s resolutions are bad for you

Your subconscious mind is this phenomenal machine that helps you find evidence of what you 𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒗𝒆

It doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality

It doesn't know what's in the past or future

It's only here to prove you right

So when you say “𝑰'𝒎 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 to lose weight…”

You're actually telling your subconscious “𝒍'𝒎 𝒖𝒏𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉𝒚…”

And your subconscious mind says “𝑩𝒆𝒕..𝒍𝒆𝒕 𝒎𝒆 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕”

So you go to the gym, eat clean for a week & then something triggers you

Instead of getting curious about the trigger you resort to eating that cake, telling yourself you 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒍

And then feel 𝒈𝒖𝒊𝒍𝒕𝒚 for breaking your New Year's resolution

That guilt reminds you of all the times you lacked discipline & by the time you know it, your dream body is a 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒎𝒆𝒎𝒐𝒓𝒚

Do you see where it all started?

By telling yourself “𝑰’𝒎 𝒈𝒐𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐…”

What if you tricked yourself into 𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 you have everything you desire, even if you don't?

So you don't keep 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 dreams & instead 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒊𝒕, 𝒃𝒆 𝒊𝒕…𝒃𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒊𝒕 𝒕𝒐𝒅𝒂𝒚

Because if your subconscious only works in the present tense & doesn't know the difference between imagination & reality

That means you have to act as if you've 𝒇𝒖𝒍𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒓𝒆 to stay 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒊𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒅 to your dreams

Just imagine having a healthy, toned, flexible, sexy body

How would you 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍?

If you can't feel into it, or you just can't see it in your mind

𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒖𝒏𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒔

These traumas are playing like a movie in your subconscious

And because it can't differentiate between the past or future, your subconscious 𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒔 you're still that little girl with traumas

If you want to make 2024 your best year, you 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒖𝒎𝒂𝒔 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒍𝒚

By deleting painful memories from childhood & generations back

You need to 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒈𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒎𝒐𝒗𝒊𝒆 from the broken little girl to the 𝒔𝒆𝒙𝒚, 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉𝒚, 𝒂𝒃𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒂𝒏𝒕, 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏

Because that cake doesn't represent your lack of discipline

You call it ‘𝒍𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒐𝒇 𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒄𝒊𝒑𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆’ but if you played the memory on the TV, you would hear a script of someone calling you “𝒍𝒂𝒛𝒚, 𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒘𝒆𝒊𝒈𝒉𝒕, 𝒖𝒈𝒍𝒚, 𝒏𝒐𝒕 𝒈𝒐𝒐𝒅 𝒆𝒏𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉…”

Which created 𝒔𝒉𝒂𝒎𝒆 in your body & triggered your fight/flight response

That shame created a coping mechanism such as “𝒆𝒂𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒌𝒆/𝒋𝒖𝒏𝒌 𝒘𝒉𝒆𝒏 𝒕𝒓𝒊𝒈𝒈𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅…”

So whenever you set a goal, your subconscious plays that memory of you being called names instead of the 𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒎 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒚𝒐𝒖'𝒓𝒆 𝒕𝒓𝒚𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒐 𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒐𝒅𝒚

You're meant to 𝒍𝒆𝒕 𝒈𝒐 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒇 𝒔𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒄𝒂𝒏 𝒇𝒖𝒍𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒈𝒐𝒂𝒍𝒔

But because your body is stuck in fight/flight from the shame, you use your coping mechanisms, to 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒅 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒊𝒆𝒇 𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒎 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒉𝒂𝒎𝒆

However that relief is temporary & you're back to replaying those memories & script

You don't lack discipline, you just have the wrong movie playing in your mind

When you play 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒔𝒆𝒙𝒚, 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏 of you, you create the habits & behaviors 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆

There's no more resistance

You break the Sabotage Cycle™️

You eat clean, sleep well, stop stressing, exercise

You get healthier each day

Your skin glows

You look younger

You 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒑 𝒘𝒂𝒊𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 for a New Year to set goals

You're intentional about 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈𝒍𝒆 𝒅𝒂𝒚

𝑳𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒔 𝒆𝒇𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒕𝒍𝒆𝒔𝒔

Because you’ve embraced the dream version of you & decided to 𝒑𝒍𝒂𝒚 𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒊𝒏 𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒍 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆

𝑮𝒖𝒓𝒍 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒈𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒃𝒆𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒎 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏, 𝒔𝒆𝒙𝒚, 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒕𝒉𝒚 & 𝒍𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖𝒓 𝒎𝒐𝒔𝒕 𝒂𝒎𝒂𝒛𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝑻𝑶𝑫𝑨𝒀…𝒉𝒐𝒘 𝒎𝒖𝒄𝒉 𝒘𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒎𝒆𝒂𝒏 𝒕𝒐 𝒚𝒐𝒖?

When I created Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure I had one intention in mind

𝑻𝒐 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒆𝒎𝒃𝒓𝒂𝒄𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒓 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒂𝒏𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒅

As an ex hustler, I remember being so burnt out making money, thinking “𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒄𝒂𝒏'𝒕 𝒃𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆…”

There had to be more

Because feminine energy is attractive

As a woman, you're the luxurious energy

You're are abundance

It's like your primal instinct, you 𝒈𝒆𝒕 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒅𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒓𝒆

You can't turn it off. Even if you hustle, burn out or micro manage

You're still a magnet, attracting everything you set your mind to

But what if you could fulfill your dreams without hustling, proving yourself or working harder than a man?

What if you could easily achieve your goals, by resting?

What if you embraced your womanhood, instead of hating it?

You 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒈𝒚

You don't need to figure it out

All you have to do is heal your traumas permanently in 8 areas of your life

So you can regulate your nervous system, set healthy boundaries, fulfill your dreams & reclaim your feminine power

No more people pleasing, perfectionism or procrastination

You'll be in 𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒕, 𝒓𝒆𝒄𝒆𝒊𝒗𝒆 & 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒙 𝒎𝒐𝒅𝒆

Romanticizing your life, getting everything you pray for

Like Saliha. After 8 weeks in Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure she stopped micromanaging her business & family. She finally spent money on herself & stopped getting triggered about her kids

And Amna. When she healed her traumas, her health improved. Even her doctors were shocked over her blood work

And what about Aisha. When she healed from childhood traumas, she started her business & her confidence skyrocketed

𝑰 𝒄𝒐𝒖𝒍𝒅 𝒈𝒐 𝒐𝒏… 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒉𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒓𝒆𝒅𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒆𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒊𝒂𝒍𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒘𝒐𝒎𝒆𝒏 𝒇𝒊𝒏𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒃𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆 𝒑𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈, 𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒆𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒊𝒔𝒎 & 𝒔𝒂𝒃𝒐𝒕𝒂𝒈𝒆

You could too when you join Sacred. Feminine. Pleasure

Each week we heal 8 areas of your life, so you can embrace the power of your womahood to rest, receive & relax & finally live the life you pray for

You'll also get coached by me every week. The coaching you get is potent & just what you need

Just imagine your friends & family complimenting your glow up in 8 weeks

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