6 Signs you're suffering with a mother wound

Written By Rosalean Batool

πŸ‘‰πŸΌ You struggle with self-care


Taking care of yourself is a wild concept. You never really saw your Mum do that. She was always busy serving people or rushing out the door

So you learned that your body/health isn't important

Your feminine energy loves self-care. When you get dressed up or just shower & do skincare you're teaching yourself that π’šπ’π’– π’Žπ’‚π’•π’•π’†π’“

πŸ‘‰πŸΌ You switch from β€œI don't care” to β€œI don't know how much more I can take” easily

Your mother is meant to regulate your nervous system until you're 3 years old. You rely on her to make you 𝒇𝒆𝒆𝒍 𝒔𝒂𝒇𝒆

If she was busy, working, a single parent she had to π’…π’Šπ’”π’„π’π’π’π’†π’„π’• π’‡π’“π’π’Ž π’šπ’π’– π’†π’Žπ’π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’π’π’š in order to π’”π’–π’“π’—π’Šπ’—π’†

That was π’•π’“π’‚π’–π’Žπ’‚π’•π’Šπ’›π’Šπ’π’ˆ for you as a child so you ended up π’ƒπ’†π’π’Šπ’†π’—π’Šπ’π’ˆ you're just not lovable enough

πŸ‘‰πŸΌ You sit in the car/wait when you arrive at a destination because you struggle with switching tasks

Your mum is like your comfort blanket. Everytime something felt scary, she was meant to π’ˆπ’–π’Šπ’…π’† π’šπ’π’– π’•π’‰π’“π’π’–π’ˆπ’‰ π’šπ’π’–π’“ π’†π’Žπ’π’•π’Šπ’π’π’”

If she had her own traumas or wasn't taught how to regulate herself, she mostly likely passed that trait on to you

So when change happened & you expressed fear, she either shut you down or ignored you to π’‡π’Šπ’ˆπ’–π’“π’† π’Šπ’• 𝒐𝒖𝒕 𝒐𝒏 π’šπ’π’–π’“ π’π’˜π’

πŸ‘‰πŸΌ Instead of asking people to repeat the Q, you laugh it off nervously

The simple act of asking feels π’„π’π’π’‡π’“π’π’π’•π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’‚π’ 𝒕𝒐 π’šπ’π’–

That's because your mother shouted at you for asking for something, or ignored your needs because she was busy

Instead of helping you process your emotions, she let you figure it out in your own

Which led you to not ask questions & do everything on your own

πŸ‘‰πŸΌ Money issues

You love giving gifts but find it hard to recieve gifts

You often struggle to express what you'd like as a gift & say β€œπ’‹π’–π’”π’• π’ƒπ’–π’š π’Žπ’† π’˜π’‰π’‚π’•π’†π’—π’†π’“β€

You go through highs & lows with your income. When money is up, you overspend on those you love

When money is low you have anxiety & stress about bills, but never ask anyone for help

πŸ‘‰πŸΌ People say you're strong

You're the person no one worries about because you always show up when people need you

You say β€œπ‘° π’ˆπ’π’• π’Šπ’•β€ even when you really don't but you always figure it out

Everyone thinks you have it all together when really you deal with things
π’’π’–π’Šπ’†π’•π’π’š because you don't want to 𝒍𝒆𝒕 𝒑𝒆𝒐𝒑𝒍𝒆 π’…π’π’˜π’

Your mother often let you down so you struggle to disappoint others

Your mother represents π’‡π’†π’Žπ’Šπ’π’Šπ’π’† π’†π’π’†π’“π’ˆπ’š

If she was a martyr, people pleaser or perfectionist you 𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒏𝒆𝒅 it wasn't 𝒔𝒂𝒇𝒆 to 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒔 your feminine energy

Your childhood is the training ground for you to embody your gifts & find harmony with your masc & femme energies

But when your mother was dysregulated the only thing you learned is to π’Žπ’Šπ’”π’•π’“π’–π’”π’• π’šπ’π’–π’“π’”π’†π’π’‡ & π’Šπ’ˆπ’π’π’“π’† π’šπ’π’–π’“ π’Šπ’π’•π’–π’Šπ’•π’Šπ’π’

𝑫𝒐 π’šπ’π’– π’“π’†π’„π’π’ˆπ’π’Šπ’”π’† π’‚π’π’š 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒔𝒆 π’”π’Šπ’ˆπ’π’” π’˜π’Šπ’•π’‰π’Šπ’ π’šπ’π’–π’“π’”π’†π’π’‡?

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