How to avoid resentment towards your husband, when you're the breadwinner

How do you figure out your role in your marriage when you're making more money?

If you ask social media, Shera will say "Your husband's a roommate, sprinkle sprinkle. Find a new one".

The IG baddies will say "If he wanted, he would" while taking pics of themselves in an infinity pool full of roses

The feminists will say "You don't need a man when you're paying all the bills. Leave his ass. Kick him out"!

The religious folks will say "Be patient. If he doesn't pay the bills, be patient. If he doesn't clean. Be patient".

Bluepillers will say "You deserve a man who will cook, clean AND pay your bills"

Redpillers & MGTOW will say "high-value men cheat so be happy you have someone"

Here's my advice

Learn to ask God & yourself, what feels good for you

Subconsciously you're afraid of owning your decisions

Ever since you were young, you were programmed to follow someone else's plan for you

If you come from a cultural family, there's so much shame in divorce, separation & money

The feeling in your body is the fear of judgment

You die at the thought of people judging you for paying for a grown man

So you diss your husband when he's too happy

You're repulsed by sex

You watch his every move because you feel like you own him

You can't trust him with money

You've turned into his mother

Now you're in a Sabotage Cycle™️ trying to prove you have a good marriage, while resenting your husband every time he breathes

It's your job to discern if the man you're with, is a good man

Only you know that. You need to dig into your intuition to figure it out

But when you're in masculine energy your intuition is suppressed & you focus on proving

Ask yourself;

Where is that need to prove coming from?

I'm not saying it's okay for you to remain the breadwinner, because we have the biological urge to be taken care of

But what we can do is learn how to master our emotions & intuition so we don't make impulsive decisions just because a guru on the Internet said so

This is feminine energy. Where you focus on what feels good for you & in line with your lifelong vision

Marriage is a lifelong commitment

There may come a time when your husband loses his job

It happened to my clients during the pandemic

They resented their husband when he couldn't pay the bills

When we explored the resentment we found this in the subconscious;

"What would people say, if they knew, I was paying the bills? How do I explain I'm taking care of my family"

Their womb was shrinking. It's meant to receive from the masculine

We used Abundance Rewiring™️ to purge the shame.

It was like a weight had been lifted from their hearts & they could finally think clearly about what they want

Some chose divorce & are happy with their decision

Others stayed & gave an ultimatum Their husband pulled through & became the breadwinner again

While others retired their husband & have a partnership. It worked for them

Try this energetic cord-cutting if you're feeling resentful

Close your eyes

Imagine your husband stood in front of you

Let the resentment rise into your heart & turn into a cord, coming out of your heart attached to him

Repeat out loud "I love you, thank you, I'm sorry, please forgive me"

Use your fingers to cut the cord

Do this as many times as you want to release the resentment.